I've had the same issue as well for the past week and when searching on Google to find a solution, everything that was suggested didn't help. However !!! I managed to fix the problem by going to settings - apps - Google - and disable app. This has since fixed the problem of Google assistant turning on and off when headphones are plugged in and the volume decreasing too. Hopefully I can find a permanent solution which doesn't involve disabling Google app.
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